I do get hurt by words. I may have enough EQ to immediately brush it off, but I'll think back when I'm alone and wonder whether it was my problem. Sometimes I get really sad while thinking back. Its not really easy, and the feeling will never be the same.
Think what you say, you may leave an impact far worse than what you expect.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Monday, April 2, 2012
An idea for lovebirds
Ever thought of what to do when both of you have a day off? watch a movie together, have lunch, then what?
How about this : While at a shopping centre, both of you go to a restaurant and order 1 dish, preferably a light one, then finish it together. When ur done, immediately walk to the next restaurant(if the girl chose the previous one, its the boy's turn now) and order another 1 dish. As if ur having a 10 course meal, but at different restaurants.
Why? 1 thing is that if u take small portions since u share, u dont gain that much weight. 2nd things is that since u have to travel in between restaurants, u walk and thus burning the food that u just had. In addition to that, when ur waiting for the food to arrive, u can have a nice good chat together~
To whoever is reading this and decides to try this out, good luck and have fun :)
How about this : While at a shopping centre, both of you go to a restaurant and order 1 dish, preferably a light one, then finish it together. When ur done, immediately walk to the next restaurant(if the girl chose the previous one, its the boy's turn now) and order another 1 dish. As if ur having a 10 course meal, but at different restaurants.
Why? 1 thing is that if u take small portions since u share, u dont gain that much weight. 2nd things is that since u have to travel in between restaurants, u walk and thus burning the food that u just had. In addition to that, when ur waiting for the food to arrive, u can have a nice good chat together~
To whoever is reading this and decides to try this out, good luck and have fun :)
Monday, March 19, 2012
突然间的感触
今天听到了妈妈讲一句 ： 你们这代很幸福
想想这句， 其实也应该如此，时代进步，人类当然是享有越来越多设备和方便。如果上一代比下一代幸福，那证明了上一代没有用工经营在上一代留下来的。因为你们想想，就算是孤儿，在我们的世界也都会至少被照顾，只要把握机会就一定可以学到一技防身。
这时我们也应该醒醒，如果我们不能充实的照顾下一代就千万别感情用事。一旦“搞出人命”就后悔莫及了。现在的小孩子并不好养咧，奶粉尿片样样是钱。除非爸爸妈妈养得起，不然“搞出人命”就会变成 “搞到没命”， 是被那小生命搞到你没命。不然有些人就会狠狠地堕胎，一了百了。讲到这里，突然觉得很无奈，制造了问题又不要负责任，冒的险也不小，何必当初呢？
有时候觉的这么的一句话就有酱多感触，好像长大了，少了那份童真，没了小时候的无忧无虑，多了那猜测人的心，添了不少顾忌，忘了怎么简简单单地看一件事。真烦。。。
想想这句， 其实也应该如此，时代进步，人类当然是享有越来越多设备和方便。如果上一代比下一代幸福，那证明了上一代没有用工经营在上一代留下来的。因为你们想想，就算是孤儿，在我们的世界也都会至少被照顾，只要把握机会就一定可以学到一技防身。
这时我们也应该醒醒，如果我们不能充实的照顾下一代就千万别感情用事。一旦“搞出人命”就后悔莫及了。现在的小孩子并不好养咧，奶粉尿片样样是钱。除非爸爸妈妈养得起，不然“搞出人命”就会变成 “搞到没命”， 是被那小生命搞到你没命。不然有些人就会狠狠地堕胎，一了百了。讲到这里，突然觉得很无奈，制造了问题又不要负责任，冒的险也不小，何必当初呢？
有时候觉的这么的一句话就有酱多感触，好像长大了，少了那份童真，没了小时候的无忧无虑，多了那猜测人的心，添了不少顾忌，忘了怎么简简单单地看一件事。真烦。。。
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Life~
Anyone with the same feeling?
Ahh, so sorry to my blog readers. Had to close the blog for awhile because of some personal reasons. Anyways it'll be back on soon when I feel like it~
Nowadays my uni life is about going to uni to see people and enjoy the day spending time with them then go home. Classes involve lots of talking/gaming. Except for those presentation days and sort.
Class trip went decently well. Actually the only well part was me getting to enjoy lots of crabs(2 plates since the next table wasnt really keen to dirty their fingers). Here are some pics :
Nowadays my uni life is about going to uni to see people and enjoy the day spending time with them then go home. Classes involve lots of talking/gaming. Except for those presentation days and sort.
Class trip went decently well. Actually the only well part was me getting to enjoy lots of crabs(2 plates since the next table wasnt really keen to dirty their fingers). Here are some pics :
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| Canon at the top of the hill |
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| crab~~ |
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| Too focused on the crabs |
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| Full group picture |
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| Girls in the group |
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| Awesome pic of the lighthouse |
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| A picture at the fish park |
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| Lotsa monkeys on the tree |
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| My group picture~ |
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| There's me playing emo, bag ruined the pic |
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| The place we had seafood |
The trip was on the 18th. Was a Saturday so the original feeling was "Y U DISTURB MY SATURDAY?" but then it was a great time spent together. I feel like someone's gonna say something like "wah, go with uni friends din go with us la?"...Sorry ar, its a compulsory trip, if given choice no1 will go de...
All in all, I'm gonna have a 1 month break soon~ Most likely I'll spend it on playing games, unless someone calls me out for an outing *looks forward to getting invites*
All in all, I'm gonna have a 1 month break soon~ Most likely I'll spend it on playing games, unless someone calls me out for an outing *looks forward to getting invites*
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
CNY update
Hmm, its been awhile since I updated my blog.
Lets see what I can update. Its still the Chinese New Year season, and that is why I am so busy which leads to the late update. Angpaus are tradition during Chinese New Year so I am very happy that I am not the one giving them out (not planning to be giving out soon anyways). Somehow rather, this year its nothing too special except that my cousin from UK came over. Well, the celebration stuff was usual. People came over, we went over, everybody visited everybody else (in hopes of getting angpaus - younger generations anyways). It was all fun, except the part of gambling and losing money. I havent opened my red packets yet since its a custom to wait till the 15th day of CNY. All in all, the 1 week break was fun from uni.
Talking about uni, these few days sucked for me. Before CNY, the management didnt realize there would be so many students that the venue was too packed. Then they told us to join the other class where we only had monday classes. Now when we come back, they tell us that instead of reducing our time, they are now squeezing the original timeframe into 3 weeks. After being successful in giving us a headache, the lecturer is telling us that he wants to replace class lost on a Saturday by organising a trip. Guess what, student will have to DIY and he just comes along and babysits us. Very nice idea to save brainpower on what to do for 6 hours. Another killer is there will be one monday where classes stretch on from 8.30 to 5.30 non-stop. Even if he decides to give us a break, the mental torture of having 9 hour classes will leave damage to our brain. Luckily, I have geared up my brain with extensive armor, lets hope PhD wont mean permanent head damage for me.
Lastly, a pic that somehow portraits my feelings
Lets see what I can update. Its still the Chinese New Year season, and that is why I am so busy which leads to the late update. Angpaus are tradition during Chinese New Year so I am very happy that I am not the one giving them out (not planning to be giving out soon anyways). Somehow rather, this year its nothing too special except that my cousin from UK came over. Well, the celebration stuff was usual. People came over, we went over, everybody visited everybody else (in hopes of getting angpaus - younger generations anyways). It was all fun,
Talking about uni, these few days sucked for me. Before CNY, the management didnt realize there would be so many students that the venue was too packed. Then they told us to join the other class where we only had monday classes. Now when we come back, they tell us that instead of reducing our time, they are now squeezing the original timeframe into 3 weeks. After being successful in giving us a headache, the lecturer is telling us that he wants to replace class lost on a Saturday by organising a trip. Guess what, student will have to DIY and he just comes along and babysits us. Very nice idea to save brainpower on what to do for 6 hours. Another killer is there will be one monday where classes stretch on from 8.30 to 5.30 non-stop. Even if he decides to give us a break, the mental torture of having 9 hour classes will leave damage to our brain. Luckily, I have geared up my brain with extensive armor, lets hope PhD wont mean permanent head damage for me.
Lastly, a pic that somehow portraits my feelings
Saturday, January 7, 2012
New year
Its 2012 already, and my last blog post was in october 2011.
Uni life is sorta busy until I dont really feel like blogging.
But these few weeks made me realize I miss the time spent with you.
Uni life is sorta busy until I dont really feel like blogging.
But these few weeks made me realize I miss the time spent with you.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Long while since the last update
It has been quite a while since my last update. Mainly because I had to finish up assignments, prepare for exams, practice lessons, play some games, and somehow blogging seemed forgotten.
Many things happened during the month, mostly assignments, and getting to know people. Current life is ordinarily hectic, spending time with new met friends is sort of a norm now. But I never forget my old friends, despite the messy schedule, I still try to find time to meet with them, some due to farewell parties, others just for having a game of badminton. Thou, I am terribly sorry for those college mates that I didn't get to hang out with. But no matter, will just have to make up for it.
Friends aside, Uni life is somehow reading-ful. All the lecturers is either trying to win a race, or thinks that bombarding us with tonnes of reading is fun. A 120 page reading session over the weekend was one example. I didn't really think anyone accomplished that, but oh well... But if I didnt have the a-levels basic for accounting and economics, most likely I'll be even more busy reading and understanding the topic. Nevertheless, I'm still sound of mind and body :)
Events are much more frequent last month. Got a part to play in a mini-performance sort of thing, being the driver and such. It was not the best thing that happened, but fun nevertheless. Managed to get a nice picha too~~
Life goes on, hopefully those that left, and are leaving will stay safe and enjoy their life overseas.
Many things happened during the month, mostly assignments, and getting to know people. Current life is ordinarily hectic, spending time with new met friends is sort of a norm now. But I never forget my old friends, despite the messy schedule, I still try to find time to meet with them, some due to farewell parties, others just for having a game of badminton. Thou, I am terribly sorry for those college mates that I didn't get to hang out with. But no matter, will just have to make up for it.
Friends aside, Uni life is somehow reading-ful. All the lecturers is either trying to win a race, or thinks that bombarding us with tonnes of reading is fun. A 120 page reading session over the weekend was one example. I didn't really think anyone accomplished that, but oh well... But if I didnt have the a-levels basic for accounting and economics, most likely I'll be even more busy reading and understanding the topic. Nevertheless, I'm still sound of mind and body :)
Events are much more frequent last month. Got a part to play in a mini-performance sort of thing, being the driver and such. It was not the best thing that happened, but fun nevertheless. Managed to get a nice picha too~~
Life goes on, hopefully those that left, and are leaving will stay safe and enjoy their life overseas.
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